My secret fetish is my bracelet, which is actually a cock ring. It's not a big secret, since the accessory is in plain sight. But I wonder, since it's on my wrist, if it really looks like it should be on my shaft, or around the neck of my scrotal sac, or twisted around my root and basket in a figure-eight arrangement.

I don't know if this decoration looks like it belongs on my wrist or not. Does it give away my identity? Am I outed when I wear it? Does it suggest a restraining cuff, even though it doesn't lock and has no attachment loop? Would anyone who notices it give away his or her identity by saying something like, "Is that some sort of bondage gear?" or "Where else has that strap been wrapped?" or "Have you been twisting your knickers again?"

Those questions would embarrass me. I'd really get my knickers in a twist if I heard such remarks, and I wouldn't know what to say, except, "Do you want to try it on?" And then maybe my discourse partner would hold out his or her wrist, and I'd unsnap my fetish item, and then I'd snap it on again, this time in a different place, maybe where it belongs.

I mean, why hide the body jewelry you were born to wear?